We created 5 Steps To Connect to bring together parents of strong willed children to learn how to transform intense, hard interactions into chances to grow and connect so we can feel more peace and joy in our families.
We understand you, why it’s hard, what you need.
All of us have a strong willed child so we get walking on eggshells to avoid reactions, rigid No! and intense energy.
Our dream is for all parents with a strong willed child to relate with more ease. After I used the 5 Steps to Connect framework, I was less reactive so my daughter could trust me to hear and accept her, and her reactivity decreased as well.
Exploring these skills together allows us to take things less personally, set boundaries more clearly, and not direct our reactivity AT the people we love.
When we come together and share our lived experience, shame loses its power and we feel enough, worthy. The results when I parent from here are miraculous.
I invite all to try this community and explore the fun learning with others who are walking the same challenging path. You won’t regret it!
Positive Discipline Community Resources
The Positive Discipline Parenting and Classroom Management models are aimed at developing mutually respectful relationships. Positive Discipline teaches adults to employ kindness and firmness at the same time, and is neither punitive nor permissive.
The tools and concepts of Positive Discipline include:
-Mutual respect. Adults model firmness by respecting themselves and the needs of the situation, and kindness by respecting the needs of the child.
-Identifying the belief behind the behavior. Effective discipline recognizes the reasons.
-Kids do what they do and works to change those beliefs, rather than merely attempting to change behavior.
-Effective communication and problem solving skills.
-Discipline that teaches (and is neither permissive nor punitive) and guides.
-Focusing on solutions instead of punishment.
-Encouragement (instead of praise). Encouragement notices effort and improvement, not just success, and builds long-term self-esteem and empowerment.
Who are our services for?
• Parents, grandparents, foster parents and other family caregivers
• Parent educators
• Teachers and school administrators for preschool through grade 12
• Child-care providers
• Therapists, counselors, social workers
• Community organizations
• Communities of faith
Visit our website for a complete listing of community resources available across sectors of our community!
Positive Discipline transforms family lives through respectful relationships. We offer virtual support and learning group sessions at no cost via Zoom.
Currently we have no cost Positive Discipline Family Support sessions for all Santa Cruz City School District families for the entire academic school year.
Email your request for a parent coaching session, workshop or class to come to YOUR school site/community group virtually (or in-person once COVID19 precautions and restrictions are lifted): firstname.lastname@example.org
Positive Discipline Community Resources is a social change nonprofit that supports adults in creating healthy and thriving relationships with youth in homes, schools, and communities. Through the Positive Discipline approach, we teach a model of respectful communication and joint decision-making. Research shows that when adults have more of these skills and tools, and most importantly they MODEL these skills and tools, we see more successful outcomes with young people.
Please visit our website for more information, https://www.pdcrcc.org/.
Become a Grange Member
The mission of the SCLO Grange is to be a hub for advocacy and activism on behalf of family-sized farms, organic agriculture, sustainability, and local resilience.
Anyone interested in supporting the Grange’s mission of community service, grassroots advocacy, sustainable and regenerative agriculture, and the consumer’s role in the food production system may apply for membership in the Grange. Each member contributes at their own pace and level of participation.
The SCLO Grange is part of a state organization founded in 1873 whose mission was to support small family farmers and promote sustainable agriculture. As part of this program, the SCLO Grange focuses on organic farming, as well as, all aspects of sustainability. We have programs of interest to all persons who care about the quality, safety, and security of their food and water, and the environment at large.
Become a Grange Member!
Support Group for Pregnancy or Infant Loss
Help for moms and dads who have lost an infant in childbirth
NEW ONLINE SUPPORT GROUP for Parents Who Have Lost an Infant
The loss of a child is devastating and the pain can feel unbearable. You are not alone.
Join our trained peer support facilitators for a weekly chat. You will connect with other grieving moms and explore techniques to help in the healing process.
It’s free and easy to join. Just create a Support Group Central account and select “Pregnancy and Infant Loss Support Group” to register.
We meet every Friday and we hope that you’ll join us. https://www.postpartum.net/get…/psi-online-support-meetings/
Postpartum Support International
Help for Moms ~ Call or Text our HelpLine. You are not alone and you are not to blame. PSI is here to help. You will get better.
Call 1-800-944-4773 (4PPD) English and Spanish ~ Text a Message: 503-894-9453 (English) or 971-420-0294 (Spanish)
Available 24 hours a day, you will be asked to leave a confidential message and a trained and caring volunteer will return your call or text. They will listen, answer questions, offer encouragement and connect you with local resources as needed.
Resources for Fathers ~ The resources listed on this page provide fathers and postpartum partners informed support and connection at no charge. Please contact us if you are looking for additional resources.
DADS Chat with an Expert
First Mondays of every month — PSI hosts a free call-in forum for dads facilitated by a perinatal mood disorders expert. Call for information, support, and connection with other dads. Click HEREfor more information and call-in number.
Tips for Postpartum Dads and Partners
The Postpartum Husband: book by Karen Kleiman
Triple P – Positive Parenting Program
Parenting is very rewarding and enjoyable, and it can also be challenging and exhausting. There is no one right way to be a parent – it is up to you to decide what values, skills and behaviors you want to teach your child.
The Triple P – Positive Parenting Program is a world-renowned program available to families in Santa Cruz County who have children ages birth to 16, including children with special needs. Backed by more than 30 years of international research, Triple P provides families with a tool kit of proven strategies for strengthening relationships with their children, promoting children’s development, and preventing or managing common parenting challenges – tantrums, sibling rivalry, homework, bullying, bedtime, communicating with teens, and more.
Parents and caregivers can get as little or as much parenting support as they’d like from trained Triple P practitioners in a number of organizations throughout the county. Triple P services are available in English and Spanish for Santa Cruz County families with children birth-12 (Core Triple P), families with teens (Teen Triple P), and families with children with special needs (Stepping Stones Triple P).Options include:
Triple P Seminars – A series of three classes that provide an introduction to Triple P positive parenting strategies.
Triple P Workshops – One-time classes on specific parenting topics such as Preventing Tantrums, Encouraging Your Child’s Self-Esteem, Helping With Homework, Encouraging Teens to Cooperate, Teaching Communication Skills to Children With Special Needs, and more.
Brief Individual Sessions – Quick tips and coaching from a trained Triple P practitioner in 1-4 brief one-on-one sessions.
In-Depth Individual Sessions – In-depth parent education and coaching from a trained Triple P practitioner in 10+ one-on-one sessions.
Triple P Groups – 8- or 9-week classes that teach all of the Triple P positive parenting strategies and provide opportunities for coaching and practice.
Specialized Parenting Support – Additional help for other family issues that affect parenting (coping skills, co-parenting, communication between parenting partners, anger management, making healthy lifestyle changes as a family)
What Triple P Teaches
The Triple P program is built on five principles of positive parenting:
Ensuring a safe, interesting environment
Creating a positive learning environment
Using assertive discipline
Having realistic expectations
Taking care of yourself as a parent
Triple P offers parenting information and tips in four main areas:
Developing positive relationships
Encouraging desirable behavior
Teaching children new behaviors and skills
Whether you want a quick tip on how to handle a specific issue, some ideas on how to promote your child’s development, or help with more complex family issues, a trained practitioner can tailor Triple P to suit your needs.